I met the love of my life but..?

Next time place this in the relationship section instead of marriage section as this is for people already married or going to be divorced. You were only a rebound person to her. Love is blind. Love is desperate. She doesn't love you like you think she does. Once the baby is born you will be out of the picture as the father will be more with her. Just wait it out. Or jump ship and find another single girl with no drama. Just give it 3 months and if you don't feel comfortable than leave this relationship. It will be worse once the baby is 5 months old or 12 years old. You will be a stepdad if you plan to stay with her to the end. Are you ready to be a dad?