Do I choose the woman I actually married or my mistress whom I have two small children with?

Your answer is simple-whom do you love and who is your friend and supporter? Because, ultimately, that's what it comes down to-not . That's a bonus. If you love Judy, then go work it out and part of that will be dealing with child support with your mistress and seeing those kids but not seeing her-at least physically. Geez dude! Its time to grow up and learn to act responsibly-something you should have done years ago. Even if was only using a condom! Now, its too late so buck up and answer the simple questions and they will guide you down the right path.